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Weighted Blanket – My Personal Thoughts and Review

Hi Everyone, today I thought I would do something a little bit different on the blog – a personal review. This was inspired by comments I received on my chronic illness gift haul post back in January, (which you can read here), with people asking how I found my newly acquired weighted blanket. It has taken me some time to get round to trying it, but here is my verdict…

Disclaimer – Before I go any further I would like to point out this isn’t a sponsored post this is purely a review based on my own experiences inline with my individual conditions. Please remember we are all different in our conditions and/or symptoms, and therefore what works for one person may not work for another. I am not a medical professional, I am a patient, therefore always check with your doctor about trying anything new and always read the instructions with any new product.

So, first things first, why did I want to try a weighted blanket? I predominately wanted to try a weighted blanket to see if it helped with certain symptoms in relation to certain conditions – fundamentally my physical health in regards to sleep, my mental health for calming my mind and finally my Tourette Syndrome as a way of aiding in relaxation.

The info on my specific product includes the following:

  • 5kg – however it does state your ideal weight to choose should be 10% of your body weight.
  • It can help with relaxation and calm as it gives a comforting hug
  • Better sleep
  • May reduce anxiety

My blanket came in a lovely packaged zip up bag, which is really handy for storage or a possible travel bag in the future. The blanket itself is really soft and is reverse so you can use it both sides. There are some really great instructions in the pack, so I would really recommend anyone trying this for the first time to read them as they contain a lot of safety guidelines I didn’t even realise were a thing. Such as not covering your face or neck, and that it should not be used if you have any respiratory or circulatory disorders. (Something I didn’t read until after trying it – so don’t make the same mistake as me!!). The biggest emphasis is making sure you choose a weight that is inline with your individual body weight (10% of body weight) and that if you are unsure you should always opt for a lighter weight.

With this in mind, I can say I probably do have the right weight for my body, however not necessarily the right weight for my conditions. I say this because unfortunately getting it out the packaging was my first problem. As silly as this sounds, even with the clue in the title (you know a small word like weighted), I wasn’t actually prepared for how heavy it would be. My Fibromyalgia and UCTD means I have extremely weak muscles in my arms and I actually struggled lifting it out the bag let alone putting it on my bed. Even more of a problem is once it is on the bed I don’t have the strength to manoeuvre it around to get comfortable.

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Interestingly, I actually found I had very different experiences depending on where I used it as well. It was a lot easier to use it whilst on my bed then say the sofa. On my bed it felt more evenly balanced somehow even though it is designed to not be bulky. But, I honestly think that is more to do with me than the product and the fact that living with pain makes things feel heavier for me anyway. I tried using it over my body whilst lying on my bed, and also over my duvet whilst under it. Using it over my duvet was a big mistake – it felt too constrictive, which is probably inline with having the wrong weight. I was also more aware of my pain. However, lying on my duvet with the blanket on top of me felt a lot better and helped in making me more relaxed.

My experience of using it on the sofa really was not for me at all. In fact it made me feel rather trapped and as a result increased my urge to tic. Which in turn had the opposite effect in reducing my stress.

In terms of the symptoms I wanted to tackle, I felt the following:

  • Physical Health – Sleep was not changed purely because it is not something I could sleep under. I couldn’t use it over my duvet, and I couldn’t use it solely to sleep under because it isn’t warm enough. At times I felt my pain was more noticeable too.
  • Mental Health – I would say I had better results with my mental health than my physical as as long as I used it on the bed, I found it to aid with calming my mind and relaxation, although I didn’t really experience the ‘hug’ effect so to speak.
  • Tourette Syndrome – Interestingly for me, this was very much environment dependent. In bed, I was able to relax more, yet on the sofa it triggered my Tourette’s pretty badly increasing my urge to tic.

In summary

I would say the weighted blanket definitely has its pros and cons. I like it, but I don’t love it and I probably wouldn’t be in a rush to use it on a regular basis, but that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t use it again. For instance I may find it more useful to use in the warmer months where I can use it to sleep under directly without feeling cold. Whether I would recommend is quite a tricky question because it is very dependent on what you want it for and what your condition is.

As someone with Tourette’s it is quite difficult to recommend to say other pain disorder sufferers as my Tourette’s does play a big role in not only my ability to relax, but my pain levels too. Therefore feeling restrained and having increased urges to tic, increases my body pain in general making it hard to determine if it is the blanket causing me pain or my tensed Tourette body. Having said this, I have read many personal accounts which found weighted blankets helped people with Tourette’s and their tics.

Taking my Tourette’s off the table for a moment, I would say if you are suffering with pain in the form of chronic illness then definitely consider the weight of the blanket, and go for a lighter weight to be on the safe side.

From a mental health viewpoint I would say it is a worthwhile experiment if you can afford it, (they can definitely be on the pricey side), as it can help in relaxation and giving you a level of comfort.

My final bit of advice is really do make sure you do your research and read any relevant instructions. The reality is they are not designed for everyone, so always ask questions before making any clear cut decisions, and find out whether they are suitable for your condition before making a dent in your wallet.

Do you use a weighted blanket? Does it work for you?

Sarah xx

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Chronic Illness Friendly Gifts Haul (Pt 2)

Happy 2022 Everyone!! I hope you are doing well and have had at the very least a relaxing festive period. Here we are back again for another new year and hopefully with lots of happiness on the horizon.

To kick start Me, Myself and Chronic Illness blog for the year, I thought I would follow what I did for my first post of 2021 and that is a chronic illness gift haul. For anyone who isn’t aware, hauls are something I have seen YouTubers do whereby they share what gifts they had for Christmas – but my version of course is sprinkled with some chronic illness cheer. If you would like to read what I got last year check out my first chronic illness gift haul here.

Before I begin I would like to re-mention what I said last time – gifts are not about expense they are about thought and therefore are personal to the individual. I would also like to say that like with anything you read, you should always check with your doctor first about trying any new product, our bodies are all different and as a result what is helpful to one person may be completely inappropriate for another.

Items to keep me warm

I actually used this header last year and that is because I am often gifted items to keep me warm due to being so cold! This last year I was diagnosed with Raynaud’s which as a result leaves me with incredibly cold hands and feet. With this in mind for Christmas I received multiple items to keep my feet toasty including fluffy socks, slipper boots, slipper boot socks (I guess a mix between a boot and a sock) and probably the best invention ever for a cold cat like me – an electronic foot warmer. Let’s just say when the feet go in they do not want to come out!

Other items to keep me warm included pyjamas and a long hot water bottle – ideal for putting in my bed.

Items to keep me entertained

As we know chronic illness life can be a merry go round at the best of times, so it is really important to find things to distract ourselves. I am an avid book reader when my illnesses allow, so I was thrilled to receive a few books including one detailing the life of my favourite artist.

Last year I also discovered my love for cross stitch (I say it like it was an immediate love, but in all honesty it took me several goes to start enjoying it) and again this is often energy and symptom dependent, but when I can do it, it brings me completely in the zone. For Christmas I received some lovely cross stitch kits and patterns to enjoy at my own pace, as well as a lovely craft box to hold all my bits and bobs in.

My craft box and kits

A Weighted Blanket

I have been umming and arrghing for a long while about getting a weighted blanket, and read various reviews on whether they are good for chronic illness or not. I know some people find them really relaxing whereas others have found them painful for their bodies, so it has definitely been a mixed bag of opinions. Let’s just say I think this really is probably a product based on individual preferences.

I have yet to use my blanket, but I am really happy with getting the opportunity to use this product. It may not be the best for my Fibromyalgia, but I am really keen to see if it makes a difference with my anxiety and comfort levels – and who knows perhaps my Tourette’s? Either way I am really excited to find out and report back.

Sunglasses

Since my diagnosis of UCTD being in the sun has become a prevalent issue for me as has protecting my eyes from any harmful lights. Being gifted a proper pair of UV protection sunglasses is not only a thoughtful gift, but a necessary one.

Other Items

  • Diary – Great to keep track of my appointments, blood tests and medication ordering
  • Money – Always a much needed gift when living a chronic illness life
  • Make-up/Clothing – To make me feel like a functioning human being even if at times I am far from it

All the gifts I received last Christmas (I almost fell into the trap and put this year) are gifts I am incredibly grateful for because they are gifts which aid in helping me manage my symptoms whilst also factoring in I am more than chronic illnesses.

Gifts aren’t about expense or quantity, nevertheless I wanted to show a realistic haul representing a life like mine and that could give ideas which may be of benefit in the future.

How did your festive season turn out? Are there any chronic illness friendly gifts you received that would benefit others? If you would like to share I would love to hear them in the comments.

Here’s to a fab 2022 for us all 💕

Sarah xx

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Chronic Illness Friendly Gifts Haul

Happy New Year everyone and welcome to my first blog post of the year. I can’t believe we are in 2021 already, but I am excited to be back blogging and have many ideas for the months ahead.

Over the festive period I watched a lot of YouTube videos and noticed that a lot of YouTubers and influencers do videos about what they got for Christmas, so this has been my inspiration for my first post. I thought I would share with you the chronic illness friendly gifts I received at Christmas and why I feel they are beneficial to my chronic illnesses.

Please note gifts are not about expense, they are about finding thoughtful ideas which mean a lot to another person. Smaller things are often things that mean the most.

Items to keep me warm

As any chronic illness warrior will know keeping warm is a must. My conditions impact my circulation so I am cold the majority of the time. With this in mind I was delighted to receive a brand new fluffy hot water bottle and a mustard yellow bobble hat – both great additions to these cold winter days.

My Winter Warmers

A Massage Gun

Alongside my Fibromyalgia pain, I do get a lot of muscular aches and pains from my body tensing due to my Tourette’s. The massage gun comes with a variety of different heads designed to help with a variety of problem areas on a deep tissue level. Whilst I wouldn’t advise this for Fibro pain because the vibrations can actually hurt your body (and it did mine) I have found it helpful for specific knots.

Skin Products

My skin is so sensitive it is unbelievable, so much so I tend to struggle with even the ‘sensitive friendly’ products you often come across. I am yet to try these, but my mum gifted me the cutest beauty products in the form of Simple facial wash, micellar water and moisturiser. A couple of them are hypoallergenic (REMEMBER to always check when using products yourself) and contain less plastic. So watch this space with how I get on.

A selection of books and films

Being chronically ill you are often struck down with days where you really can’t do a great deal so having items such as books and films are a great resource to pass the time. I received a variety of films including Christmassy ones such as Last Christmas and horror ones such as IT Chapter 2 which I can choose based on my mood and books from my favourite authors Erin Green and C.L. Taylor.

Reading Time

Stretchy Dresses

I know a lot of people with chronic illness like to wear comfy clothes that are easy to wear and don’t require much fuss, I have to confess for me that consists of skirts and dresses more so than trousers. I was lucky enough to receive two dresses for Christmas which are comfortable and stretchy all whilst remaining stylish. These are perfect for someone like me who often has a bloated stomach as I don’t have to worry about anything digging in.

Money

One of the most useful gifts you can receive as a chronic illness person is money. Being chronically ill and working class I struggle for money a lot and having money gifted to me allows me to buy those things I need the most, yet often cannot afford. Not having money also makes you think more about spending it on worthwhile things and not just blow it on any old thing, so I am still planning what I would like to spend it on and what I am of need of the most.

Other Gifts

Art Gallery Gifts – Art Galleries are a huge hobby of mine and the art displayed in them often evokes an air of mindfulness for me not many other activities do. Even without current times I do struggle getting to galleries so gifts which enable me to enjoy the atmosphere in my own home is amazing.

Duvet CoverMug Diary

Here you have it the chronic friendly gifts I received this year – I am so grateful for the gifts I got and thankful the buyer considers my chronic illness needs. I think chronic illness buying can be quite a difficult task for people who don’t have chronic conditions – did your loved ones consider your needs this year?